Can YOU Live With Your Family? Is Multigenerational Living Right For You?

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With continued advances in medical science contributing to the longevity and vitality of older Americans and the average age when couples marry continuing to creep up steadily, many American families are finding themselves living with multiple generations under one roof. The advantages of this type of living situation are numerous, including the cost of living spread across more people, combined incomes often contributing to being able to afford more house, and maintenance and upkeep being done by more people. According to the Pew Research Center, more than 64 million Americans were living in multigenerational housing, driving more people to consider living together in an expanded family situation.

The most important thing to remember is that you can live well together if you have a plan for expectations.

  1. Set boundaries early. Especially in the case of adult children, it’s important to establish expectations as to what each family member needs as far as privacy, bills, maintenance/upkeep, and personal preferences.

  2. Establish a household budget and plan how everything will be divided. Does the couple in the master suite pay more? Will bills be divided evenly? Who will park in the garage? Questions such as these help everyone feel comfortable since there won’t be surprises.

  3. Plan for the challenges. It’s important that you discuss what happens if someone decides to move out, how the proceeds will be divided if the home is sold, and what happens if a family member loses their job or stops paying altogether. While you may hope that these scenarios don’t happen, it’s better to discuss these situations now while everyone can have time to reflect and make a decision without being in a stressful situation.

  4. More house for your dollar. By combining funds, you may be able to afford a bigger home or a home in a neighborhood that you want but, didn’t think you could afford. Be on the lookout for en suites, basements, and homes with guest houses. This could allow more family members to live together more comfortably.

While multigenerational living certainly has its benefits, it’s crucial that everyone be completely realistic about whether this living situation could work for them. If this is the right choice for you, contact your local lender and see what the best programs and products are for you and your family’s needs. Cheers to the family home.